Willpower and Habituating Behaviour

Willpower is a finite resource. It can be expanded upon and developed through incremental practice (not by accident, several of these practices are included in the Class because of their beneficial effect on growing willpower in a Trainee). However, Willpower is always a finite resource. When establishing a new behaviour, more Willpower is required to […]

Designing Better Reinforcers

As part of my research for developing the upcoming Class on Training your Submissive I’ve taken a broad and in-depth look at behaviour reinforcement mechanisms. Effective reinforcement mechanisms are the cornerstone of some of the training methods I will be presenting during the Class. It falls to you as the Trainer to quickly and effectively […]

The Training Process

The Training Process that I would use is thorough and process-driven.  “Finding the Diamond within.” – Phase 1 would consist of Information Gathering. A Formal Interview with a series of structured questions designed to elicit introspective thought and to approach every area of desired improvement from multiple angles to ensure both accuracy and truthfulness. I […]

Rough Guidelines on Setting Rules

Keep them clear. If needed, add some clarity or likely exceptions or special circumstances to the end, but at least have the initial sentence contain the general thrust of it, to facilitate easier learning by the submissive. Be consistent. Don’t make a Rule that you aren’t willing to enforce every time. Late at night, first […]

List of Assessment Tools

The Essentials https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Extra Assessment Tests https://carnalcalibration.com/en https://hypnosis.edu/sq/intro – Hypnotic Suggestibility Test  https://www.kinkomatic.com/ https://mojoupgrade.com/ https://www.weshouldtryit.com/ https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode https://high5test.com/ https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ https://cdn.rawgit.com/Goctionni/KinkList/master/v1.0.2.html – Kink Assessment  https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/252137/home.aspx https://sakinorva.net/functions https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/LSRP.php – For assessing Psychopathy – Note: You are not qualified to diagnose anyone with anything, this test is simply listed here for completeness.  https://www.psytoolkit.org/survey-library/psychopathy-lsrps.html – For assessing Psychopathy – […]

Guest Post – How I would Train a Submissive if I were a Master

The below writing is not written by me. She expresses a different perspective of the same process, useful to the eager student. First, I’d want her to learn about me. I’d want her to understand intimately how I work, my emotional signals, my likes and dislikes, how to understand me and approach me. Both for […]